What to Look for in a Nursery
Learn what to observe, ask and verify when choosing a nursery, including staff interaction, safeguarding, routines, meals, sleep, outdoor play, communication, fees, availability and the nursery contract.
Use the Nursery Visit ChecklistUse a Nursery Visit Checklist
Record what you observe during a tour and identify important questions that still need an answer.
Open ChecklistKnow What to Observe
Look beyond displays and facilities to how staff respond, comfort, communicate and support children.
Observation GuideCompare Fees and Policies
Check complete nursery costs, opening hours, closures, notice, funded places and absence charges.
Review the ContractWhat to Look for in a Nursery Checklist
Select the positive signs you observed during a nursery visit. The score helps organise your notes, but it should not replace registration checks, references, inspection information or your own judgement.
Nursery Visit Scorecard
Tick only the signs you personally observed or had clearly explained by the nursery.
Your Nursery Visit Summary Will Appear Here
Select the positive signs you observed to create a score, category breakdown and follow-up checklist.
Your Nursery Visit Summary
The Most Important Things to Look for in a Nursery
A good nursery should combine warm care, safe practice, appropriate learning, clear communication and practical terms that work for your family.
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Look Beyond the Displays and Equipment
Bright rooms, tidy displays and modern resources can be appealing, but the quality of a nursery is most visible in everyday interactions. Watch how staff speak, listen, comfort, supervise and involve children.
A useful nursery visit should also cover practical issues such as fees, opening hours, available days, sickness rules, closures, notice periods and the delivery of funded childcare.
- Observe staff-child interaction during normal activity.
- Ask how the key-person arrangement works.
- Review safety, safeguarding and collection procedures.
- Check meals, allergies, sleep and personal-care routines.
- Request complete written fees and policies.
- Confirm availability for the exact days and hours you need.
What to Look for in a Nursery During a Visit
A nursery visit should help you understand how the setting operates when children are present. Rather than focusing only on the tour, watch the room, listen to staff and consider how the environment feels from a child’s perspective.
Warm and Responsive Staff
Look for practitioners who notice children, respond to their words and gestures, offer comfort and show genuine interest in play. Warmth is often visible through facial expression, tone of voice, patience and physical positioning.
Staff should not appear distracted, dismissive or repeatedly focused on adult conversation while children seek attention.
Children Who Appear Secure and Engaged
Children do not need to be cheerful every moment. A more useful sign is whether they appear comfortable seeking help, exploring resources, interacting with familiar adults and recovering from upset with support.
Staff Who Get Down to the Child’s Level
Practitioners should regularly communicate face to face rather than calling instructions across the room. This supports attention, language, reassurance and respectful interaction.
Calm Behaviour Guidance
Ask how the nursery responds to biting, hitting, frustration, sharing difficulties and conflict. Look for calm guidance, prevention, redirection and age-appropriate expectations rather than humiliation or harsh punishment.
Appropriate Supervision
Staff should be positioned so that children can be seen and supported. Supervision is especially important around doors, outdoor areas, climbing equipment, meals, sleep rooms and personal care.
A Balanced Environment
A nursery does not have to be silent, but the room should not feel continually chaotic. Children should have opportunities for active play, quieter activity, rest, conversation and concentration.
Positive Sign
Staff notice children’s cues and adapt their support without unnecessary delay.
Question to Ask
How do you help a new child who is upset during drop-off or settling-in?
Families in England can also review available Ofsted inspection information alongside the nursery visit. A report should be considered with its date, current management and your direct observations.
Nursery Staff, Ratios and the Key-Person System
Nursery quality depends heavily on the people caring for children. Ask who will work with your child, how the room is organised and what happens when a familiar practitioner is absent.
Who Will Be the Key Person?
The nursery should explain how a key person is allocated and what that person does. The key person commonly helps the child settle, builds a relationship with the family and follows the child’s development and daily experience.
What Happens When the Key Person Is Absent?
Ask who supports the child during annual leave, sickness, training or breaks. A child should have access to other familiar adults rather than depending on only one practitioner.
Staff Stability
Frequent staff turnover can affect relationships and consistency. Ask how long the room leader and regular practitioners have worked at the nursery and how changes are communicated to families.
Qualifications and Experience
Ask about the experience of the room team, relevant early years qualifications, paediatric first-aid cover and ongoing professional development.
Staff Deployment
A nursery can technically meet required staffing arrangements while still feeling stretched at busy times. Observe whether adults are available to support meals, nappies, sleep, arrivals, departures and children needing comfort.
Management Visibility
Ask who manages the nursery day to day and how families can raise a concern. Effective managers should understand the rooms, staff, safeguarding responsibilities and family communication.
How Staff Speak About Children
Listen to the language practitioners use. Children should be described respectfully and individually rather than labelled as difficult, naughty, shy or demanding.
| Staff Question | Why It Matters | Positive Sign |
|---|---|---|
| Who will be my child’s key person? | Clarifies responsibility and relationship-building | A clear explanation of the role and backup |
| How long has the room team worked here? | Helps assess continuity | Stable practitioners and transparent changes |
| How are staff trained? | Shows ongoing development and safety preparation | Regular first aid, safeguarding and early years training |
| Who manages concerns? | Shows accountability | A named manager and clear escalation route |
| How are breaks and absences covered? | Shows whether care remains consistent | Planned cover from familiar staff |
Safety and Safeguarding in a Nursery
A nursery should be able to explain how it protects children, manages access, records incidents and responds to concerns. Policies matter, but practice should also be visible during the visit.
Secure Entry
Check how parents, visitors, contractors and delivery workers enter the premises. Doors, gates and reception arrangements should reduce the risk of unauthorised access or children leaving unnoticed.
Collection Permissions
Ask how the nursery records approved collectors, handles an unfamiliar adult and verifies emergency collection arrangements.
Safeguarding Lead
The nursery should identify who leads safeguarding and how concerns are reported. Staff should understand their responsibility to act if they are worried about a child.
Mobile Phones and Photography
Ask about staff devices, nursery cameras, parent photography, online learning records and consent. The policy should protect children while allowing appropriate communication.
Accidents and Incidents
Find out how accidents are recorded, when parents are contacted and who reviews patterns. Ask how the nursery handles head injuries, biting incidents and emergency medical treatment.
Medication
Check how medicines are authorised, stored, administered and recorded. Ask whether staff are trained for specific medical needs.
First Aid
Confirm that appropriate first-aid cover is available throughout the day and during outings.
Fire and Emergency Procedures
Ask how evacuations are practised, how babies and sleeping children are moved safely and how families are contacted during an emergency.
Parents can review broader official childcare information through the GOV.UK registered childcare search service.
Nursery Environment, Play and Learning
The nursery environment should support children’s curiosity, movement, communication, creativity and independence. Expensive equipment is less important than thoughtful use of space and responsive adult support.
Age-Appropriate Rooms
Ask which room your child would join and whether the environment suits that age group. Babies need safe floor space, rest areas and responsive care, while older children benefit from accessible resources and opportunities for independence.
Accessible Resources
Toys and materials should be available at child height where appropriate. Children should be able to make choices rather than waiting for every resource to be handed out by an adult.
Open-Ended Play
Look for resources that can be used in different ways, such as blocks, art materials, role-play items, books, sensory materials and natural objects.
Books and Language
Books should be accessible and used regularly. Staff should talk, sing, listen, repeat words and introduce language naturally during play and routines.
Physical Activity
Children need opportunities to crawl, climb, balance, run, carry, push and develop coordination. Ask how physical activity is supported indoors and outdoors.
Outdoor Play
Ask how often each age group goes outside, whether outdoor play continues in different weather and how children without direct garden access use local parks or outdoor spaces.
Quiet and Rest Areas
Children should have access to quieter spaces away from constant noise and activity. This is particularly important for children who become overwhelmed or need rest.
Inclusive Resources
Books, dolls, role-play materials and displays should reflect different families, cultures, languages, abilities and everyday experiences respectfully.
Look for Choice
Children can reach and select suitable resources rather than relying entirely on adult direction.
Look for Interaction
Adults extend play through conversation and support without controlling every activity.
Meals, Sleep, Nappies and Daily Care
Everyday care routines should be respectful, hygienic and adapted to the child’s age and needs. Ask for detailed explanations rather than assuming every nursery follows the same approach.
Meals and Snacks
Request a current menu and ask how food is prepared, served and adapted. Consider portion sizes, variety, water availability, cultural diets and how children are encouraged without being forced.
Allergies and Medical Diets
Ask how allergies are recorded, communicated and managed during food preparation and serving. The nursery should explain how staff recognise and respond to an allergic reaction.
Milk and Weaning
For babies, ask how milk is stored, prepared and labelled. Discuss bottle routines, expressed milk, formula, first foods, allergens and communication with parents.
Sleep Arrangements
Ask where children sleep, how sleep checks are recorded, whether babies have individual sleep spaces and how home routines are considered.
Nappy Changing
Check the changing area, hygiene procedures, privacy, supplies and how changes are recorded. Ask whether nappies and wipes are included in fees or supplied by the family.
Toilet Learning
The nursery should work with families and avoid pressure or shame. Ask how accidents are handled and what spare clothing is required.
Comfort Items
Ask whether children can use dummies, comforters, favourite toys or family photographs during settling and rest.
Daily Records
Find out how meals, naps, nappies, toileting, medication and notable events are shared with parents.
| Care Area | Question to Ask | What to Look For |
|---|---|---|
| Meals | Can I see the current menu? | Variety, suitable portions and clear dietary procedures |
| Allergies | How do you prevent cross-contact? | Written plans and confident staff explanations |
| Sleep | How are sleeping children checked? | Safe spaces and recorded monitoring |
| Nappies | What does the nursery supply? | Clean changing areas and respectful personal care |
| Toileting | How do you support toilet learning? | Patient, individual and non-punitive support |
Communication Between Nursery and Parents
Clear communication helps families understand the child’s day, respond to concerns and work with the nursery on development, health, routines and transitions.
Daily Handovers
Ask how much time is available at drop-off and collection. A useful handover should cover important information without discussing confidential matters in front of other families.
Digital Apps and Written Records
Some nurseries use apps for meals, sleep, activities and photos. Ask how information is protected, who can access it and whether important concerns are also discussed directly.
Development Updates
Find out how the key person shares progress, interests and possible concerns. Updates should reflect the individual child rather than relying only on generic activity descriptions.
Complaints and Concerns
Ask how a parent raises a concern, who responds and what happens if the issue is not resolved. A written complaints procedure should be available.
Changes in Staff or Rooms
The nursery should explain significant staffing changes, room moves and transitions. Families should know who will become responsible for the child.
Emergency Communication
Confirm how the nursery contacts parents during illness, injury, closure, emergency evacuation or severe weather.
Respect for Family Knowledge
Practitioners should listen to parents’ knowledge about the child, while also sharing professional observations honestly and respectfully.
Nursery Fees, Opening Hours and Contract Terms
A nursery can appear suitable but still be impractical if the opening hours, available days, fee structure or contract do not match your family.
Complete Nursery Fees
Request a written quotation showing the core fee, sessions, registration, deposit, meals, nappies, consumables, trips and any other regular charge.
Opening and Collection Times
Confirm the earliest drop-off and latest collection. Include work, traffic, parking, public transport and handover time when deciding whether the hours are realistic.
Late Collection Charges
Ask how late fees are calculated and what happens after repeated late collection.
Family Holidays and Child Absence
Many nurseries continue charging when a child is absent because the place remains reserved. Check whether any holiday allowance or fee reduction applies.
Bank Holidays and Nursery Closures
Find out whether fees remain payable during bank holidays, Christmas closure, staff training or emergency closure.
Notice Period
Read the notice rules for leaving, reducing days or changing sessions. Notice periods can create significant cost if family circumstances change.
Fee Increases
Ask when prices are usually reviewed and how much notice families receive before an increase.
Funded Childcare
Ask how funded hours are delivered, which sessions are available, whether a stretched arrangement is offered and what additional charges remain payable.
Tax-Free Childcare and Other Support
Confirm whether the nursery accepts the payment method you plan to use. Eligibility for support remains a separate household matter.
| Contract Point | What to Confirm | Why It Matters |
|---|---|---|
| Core Fee | Exact sessions and included services | Prevents misleading price comparisons |
| Deposit | Refund conditions and crediting | Affects upfront cost |
| Absence | Whether full fees continue | Affects annual cost |
| Closures | Chargeable and non-chargeable closure days | Affects care and backup planning |
| Notice | Required notice for leaving or reducing days | Can create final-month costs |
| Funded Hours | Sessions, annual pattern and additional fees | Shows the real saving |
Use the Nursery Fee Calculator UK to compare written nursery quotations on the same weekly and annual basis.
Settling-In and Starting Nursery
A nursery should explain how it helps new children become familiar with the room, staff, routines and separation from parents.
Settling-In Visits
Ask how many visits are offered, whether a parent stays initially and whether visits are free or chargeable.
Individual Approach
A fixed settling plan may not suit every child. Ask how the nursery adjusts the process when a child needs more time or becomes very distressed.
Information From Home
The nursery should ask about sleep, food, comfort, language, interests, medical needs, family circumstances and previous care.
Short First Sessions
Some children benefit from gradually increasing attendance. Ask whether the nursery can support shorter early sessions within the booked arrangement.
Drop-Off Communication
Ask what parents should do during a difficult handover and how the nursery will update them after they leave.
Continuity With a Familiar Adult
The key person or another regular practitioner should be available as much as possible during the early period.
Review After Starting
Ask when the nursery will discuss how the child is settling and whether the attendance pattern or care plan needs adjustment.
Additional Needs, Allergies and Inclusive Nursery Care
Families should feel able to discuss a child’s additional needs, development, disability, medical condition, language or family circumstances openly and respectfully.
Special Educational Needs and Disabilities
Ask who coordinates additional-needs support, how concerns are identified and how the nursery works with parents and other professionals.
Reasonable Adjustments
Discuss what changes to routines, communication, equipment, environment or staffing may help the child participate.
Medical Needs
Ask whether staff can support medication, emergency plans, feeding needs, mobility, seizures, asthma or other medical requirements.
Allergy Management
The nursery should explain food preparation, storage, staff awareness, emergency medication and communication with families.
Language and Communication
Ask how the nursery supports children learning more than one language or using alternative communication methods.
Cultural and Religious Needs
Discuss food, celebrations, clothing, prayer, family customs and how the nursery represents different communities in everyday resources.
Working With Outside Professionals
Ask how the nursery communicates with health visitors, speech and language therapists, physiotherapists, local authority teams and other professionals where appropriate.
Nursery Red Flags to Take Seriously
One unanswered question does not always mean a nursery is unsafe or unsuitable. However, repeated poor communication, dismissive behaviour or unclear safety practices should be explored before accepting a place.
Children Regularly Ignored
Staff repeatedly fail to respond when children seek help, comfort or communication.
Harsh or Humiliating Language
Children are shouted at, labelled negatively or embarrassed in front of others.
Unclear Safeguarding Answers
Staff cannot explain who leads safeguarding or how concerns are reported.
Poor Entry Security
Doors or gates allow uncontrolled access, or unfamiliar adults are not challenged.
Persistent Lack of Supervision
Children are regularly out of sight or staff appear unable to monitor key areas.
Hidden or Unclear Fees
The nursery avoids giving a complete written cost breakdown or contract before payment.
Pressure to Pay Immediately
Families are pushed to pay a non-refundable deposit before reviewing the terms.
Dismissive Response to Concerns
Reasonable questions are treated as inconvenient, disloyal or inappropriate.
Outdated Information
Check whether menus, policies, staff information, inspection reports and fees are current. Old information may not represent the nursery today.
Frequent Unexplained Staff Changes
Turnover can happen in any workplace, but the nursery should explain how continuity is maintained and how families are informed.
Children Restricted Without Clear Reason
Be cautious where children spend long periods confined to seats, equipment or limited spaces without developmental or safety justification.
Little Outdoor or Physical Activity
Ask for a realistic description of outdoor use rather than accepting a general claim that children go outside regularly.
How to Compare Two or More Nurseries
Use the same questions for every nursery so that attractive features do not distract from important differences in care, availability, fees and policies.
Compare the Exact Place Offered
A general tour does not confirm that the correct room, days and start date are available. Compare the actual place each nursery can offer.
Compare the Complete Annual Cost
Use the same booked hours, annual weeks and additional charges. Include closure days, registration, deposits and funded-hour arrangements.
Compare Daily Travel
Test the journey at drop-off and collection times. Consider parking, public transport, traffic, siblings and emergency collection.
Compare Care Quality
Review staff interaction, room atmosphere, individual care, communication and how confidently each nursery answers important questions.
Compare Continuity
Ask about staff stability, room moves, key-person changes and how the nursery prepares children for transitions.
Compare Policies
Read sickness, medication, absence, late collection, complaints, photography, safeguarding, notice and refund terms.
| Comparison Point | Nursery A | Nursery B | Final Check |
|---|---|---|---|
| Available Days | Record exact offer | Record exact offer | Is it confirmed in writing? |
| Opening Hours | Record times | Record times | Do they cover travel? |
| Annual Cost | Calculate complete cost | Calculate complete cost | Are all extras included? |
| Key Person | Record arrangement | Record arrangement | Who provides backup? |
| Outdoor Play | Record frequency | Record frequency | What happens in poor weather? |
| Communication | Record method | Record method | How are concerns discussed? |
| Notice Period | Record weeks | Record weeks | Does it apply to day reductions? |
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